This is my advice for all Ladies.
I'm
sorry If it will annoy you but it's
the Truth, you really have to take
correction now.
Dear ladies,
Firstly, if you are still struggling to
find a husband at an old age
because you are looking for a
perfect man, Something is wrong
with you, Sorry to say that but it's true.
Your propaganda magazine
tells you that 'All men are liars,
cheats and useless, but let’s be
honest here, which is more likely?.
Is it that there’s something wrong with about 70million African men,
OR there is
something wrong with one African
Woman?.Ladies, you certainly will
not get into a blissful matrimony if
you are always hanging out with your so called girlfriends every
night at a beer palour or bar and
waiting for a guy to buy you a drink
and take you home. Drinking
yourself to stupor every Friday and
Saturday nights does not exactly make you look like a
marriage material. You want a man?. Invest in a
good
wardrobe, and dress responsibly.
When a man comes to you, smile
and be polite, even if he does not fit your mental image of your
kind of man.
Ladies please and
please, stop going into a relationship with a chip
on your
shoulder. If you believe all men are bad and all men are Dogs, then it
will become a self fulfilling
prophesy.
No man is perfect!. Even you!.
You say you can't marry a blue
collar guy like a mechanic or carpenter. If a carpenter was good
enough to marry MARY THE MOTHER
OF OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST", why
isn't one good enough for you?. Do
not focus on where a man is now,
but look and see where he has the potentials to be. What’s the point of being beaten
to a pulp every night by some rich, good
looking and non caring man?. Do
you want a future where you will sit
in a traffic in your car with sunglasses covering
your swollen eyes, you look out of the window and see a happy couple in a Tuk Tuk holding
hands and laughing like newly wedded couple
even after 12 years of marriage.
Please don’t fake pregnancy or get
pregnant to trap him. Your perfect
man is out there, believe, work and pray and you will get him.
THINK ABOUT IT SISTERS.
Credit: Adaramola Oluwole
